INGREDIENTS FOR A SOLID FOUNDATION:
-husband
-wife
-generous portions of time spent together
-thick broth of commitment to marriage and family
-2 cans of communications (open everyday)
-a sprinkling of give-and-take
-a tray of acceptance

SPICES:
-many servings of touch
-hot and spicy or mild (depending on personal preference)
-cupful of appreciation
-humor (to garnish)

METHOD:
-to cook up a healthy marriage, husband and wife have to mix well together. For a firm, sticky consistency, gently stir in large quantities of commitment
-to prevent mixture from curdling, do not say hurtful words, especially when the broth is beginning to heat up and boil in an argument. Turn off the heat and allow mixture to cool. You can take some time off for a while.
-when you return, open two cans of fresh communication. It may be necessary at this point to sprinkle in some give-and-take. You also need to stir in acceptance every now and then to give it some smoothness.
-now the base is ready, add in the spice (some love-making or a gentle massage). For some flavor enhancers, toss in some gifts. These need not be costly.
-finally, garnish with a generous sprinkle of humor and give it some colour and aroma

taken from:
Young parents, January 2006

oooooops, i know i should write down the author and the exact date and blah blah blah to make a better bibilography..
but watever lah.
ARGH! to think about it, i quite like dislike communication skills..
and so i'm wondering if i had made a right choice is choosing public speaking as one of my CDS, cuz it's almost the same as communcation skills..
SIGH!
):

but on the flip side of the coin, none other CDS seems to interest me at this moment except public speaking and leadership.
AND CALCULUS, which i don't understand why i couldn't get it.

no matter how unhappy i am, i'm glad that there are always things and people who will cheer me up!
((:




don't mis-interpret, the above picture is not a gift from anyone.
i just post it, cuz people say flowers will cheer up one's day.
and i believe "fake" flowers will too.
LOLS.

(bear with me, i got to backtrack a little, to talk about happy stuff that obviously makes me hapy..)..

*the day before yesterday*
.
.
.
first heart-warming stuff for the new semester is..
to have dinner at hongjun's house on 22nd oct.
and it's home-cooked food by his mother.
((:

*yesterday*
.
.
.

we had FIRST LOVE lunch together at nihon mura.
(minus off shermaine, plus dear)..
thanks dear for that treat..
((:

then..
we had 2hour lecture.
AND YANLING gave me her favourite post-card.
she wrote on the post-card the reason why she's giving me the post-card which she love so much..
"just to show how important you are to me. for now, and for future"..
I'M SUPER TOUCHED BY IT..
really.
((:

and ta-da.
we had no other activities after lecture..
charlene and shermaine came to my house to watch "ALONE"..
(for your information, my mother rent the vcd, so IT'S NOT PIRATED.haha..)
i'm happy cuz i'm not watching "ALONE" alone.
LOLS.
((:

after which,
i accompany charlene back to TP for her lecture.
and find hongjun.
((:
he said he was surprise to see me!
AND I'M OVER-JOY, CUZ I'M HAPPY THAT I MAKE HIM HAPPY BY SURPRISING HIM!

*today*
.
.
.
i met up with my dearest claudia..
and we had lunched in TP..
((:
btw, it's my first lunch in TP since the start of the new semester.
can't believe it right? cuz it's already my THIRD day in school.
oh well.
sometimes, we cant predict somethings.
LOLS.
(i think i'm crapping alot)
overall, it's great to update each other about stuff and shower each other with lots of love.
((:
claudia, no matter what happens, remember that i can always lend you my shoulder.

then.
i met wanying.
for leadership lecture, which was conducted so so late.
from 6pm-7pm.
but her presence makes me feel as if time past so so fast.
((:
had dinner together, and she sent me home.
i know it sounds a bit GAY lesbian..
oh well,she sent me home because she is afraid that i will get hooked up by some guy and that she can't explain to hongjun. she's just worried about me.. ((:
THANKS GIRL!

i just notice know i have been typing a lot this time round.
alrights!
i promise to blog with more photos the next time round..

i want all projects to end.
though most of it havnt even start.

i want to hug you tight!

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